That picture of the early church — people gathered in homes, sharing meals, praying for each other, doing life together — that's what a small group is. And it's not optional if you want to truly grow.

I'll be honest with you: I know that not everyone is wired the same way. Some of you are introverts who would honestly be quite happy just staying home. Some of you can't get enough people around you. And some of you genuinely don't know which one you are. That's fine. All three of those types of people need Christian friends in their lives. Here's why:

They provoke you to keep going. I need people in my life who give me a nudge, who challenge me to keep pursuing God even when I don't feel like it. They encourage you. Every person I've ever met needs a cheerleader — someone who notices what you're doing and says, "I see you. I appreciate you. Keep going." They help you stay on track. Life throws temptations at all of us. I need someone I can call before I fall over the edge, not after. They're there when you're down. Depression and discouragement are real. You can be surrounded by a crowd and still be completely alone inside. What you need is not another motivational speech — often, what you need is a friend who knows your name and will sit with you in the hard moments.

We have over 75 Life Groups at COTR — classes, ministry teams, home groups. There is something for everyone. And if you've been walking with Jesus for any amount of time, I want to say this directly: People need what you have. You may not feel like an expert. You may feel like you barely know enough yourself. But the experience you've accumulated, the faith you've developed — that is exactly what a brand-new believer needs to see. You have more to offer than you know.